Sync'ing my BB with my Thunderbird calendar and Contacts

Hey all, If anyone ever figures out how to directly sync a Blackberry Curve to Thunderbird w/Lightning WITHOUT using Google, I will gladly pay money for the answer.

I am still not ready to put my contacts "on the cloud" because I don't think it is fair to everyone in my contact list to have their information exposed on the Internet where some hacker or even a tech can access their information.

Patiently waiting and have a great day!